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🧟‍♂️ Spite Reading: It Happens

🧟‍♂️ Spite Reading: It Happens

by | Dec 26, 2025 | 🎧 Audiobook Life

Now and then, I stumble into a series I shouldn’t finish.
I know better.
I’m yelling at the main character.
I’m rolling my eyes so hard I’m giving myself a headache.
And yet—I keep listening.

This is what I call spite reading.
And yes, it’s real.

📚 Case Study: The Hot Girl’s Zombie Apocalypse™

I found a zombie series. Not gonna name it.
But let’s just say it felt like a CW drama with occasional undead.

Now, credit where it’s due:

  • The zombie outbreak premise? Pretty good.
  • The supporting characters? They were there.
  • The writing? Decent.

The main character?
 An absolute menace.

🤦‍♂️ Meet the Worst Apocalypse Strategist Ever

This woman has let so many people die, you’d think she was secretly working for the zombies.

Why?
Because she believes in people.
She thinks everyone can be saved. Like zombies can somehow be talked down from full-blown cannibalism.

Now look—I get it.
That kind of optimism is normal early on in zombie stories.
We all want to believe there’s still hope for humanity.

But by victim #10?
That’s not hope anymore. That’s straight-up denial with a body count. She straight-up watched like 40 people die because she wanted to save a dog. After watching all those people die, she was proud of herself for saving the dog. Spoiler: the dog was spreading the zombie disease.

❤️💀 Also: Everyone Wants to Date Her?

This woman is apocalypse catnip.
Every side character is in love with her.
No one makes a move. They just stand around and respect her feelings and don’t help the people being eaten alive!

Her husband dies; that one was not her fault, but it puts her children at risk by keeping him in the house. And her grief arc has a half-life shorter than an episode of The Bachelor.
By hour 3.5, she’s emotionally available and conveniently shirtless again.

I DON’T GET IT!

🧠 But You Know Who Wins?

The author.
Because I purchased and listened to all four books.

I rage-listened.
I hate-finished.
I spite-read an entire zombie series just so I could complain about it to strangers on the internet.

And you know what?
Weird strategy…
But I respect it.

🎧 New to Audiobooks? Should You Start for Free?

🎧 New to Audiobooks? Should You Start for Free?

by | Dec 18, 2025 | 🎧 Audiobook Life, 🛠️ Dad-vice & Gear

Uh… yeah.
Saving money is basically the first commandment of Dad Culture. Right after “don’t touch the thermostat” and “pretend you know how to fix things.”

Also, audiobooks are not something you brag about to your imaginary country club friends.
Who even goes to country clubs anymore?
And what are they? Golf courses with salad bars?
A museum for polos?

Anyway.

The guy at Home Depot definitely doesn’t want to hear about your audiobooks — even though he sees you five times every Saturday because you started a home project you were emotionally, financially, and spiritually unprepared for.

But let’s get back to the point:

If you’re new to audiobooks, start for free.

Get a library card.
Download the Libby app.
Join the enlightened cheapskate community.

Yeah, you’ll have to wait for books.
But let’s be real — I have not met a single human who will die if they don’t immediately listen to their desired sci-fi epic or emotional rom-com that definitely wasn’t written for dads, but we listen anyway.

I love books. They’re basically my entire identity now.
But even I check Libby before dropping money on Audible… because I wish to retire someday.

📚 The Libby Starter Pack

Libby is stupidly simple to use:

  1. Get a library card.
  2. Download the app.
  3. Open the app — if this step confuses you, maybe don’t start a home renovation.
  4. Enter your library card number 12 times because the app hates your existence.
  5. Filter for audiobooks only, because who willingly reads full novels on their phone unless they’re 19 and still have hope?

Look, if you don’t have to spend money, don’t.
Audible isn’t hurting. Jeff Bezos does not need your $14.95 this month.

And let’s be honest…
You will eventually spend thousands of dollars on audiobooks.
We all do.
It’s like a subscription tax on avoiding our feelings.

So for now?

Start free. Stay cheap. Join us.

🎧 Excellent Times to Listen to Audiobooks

🎧 Excellent Times to Listen to Audiobooks

by | Dec 11, 2025 | 🎧 Audiobook Life

A Survival Guide for When Your In-Laws Show Up

Look, I’ve done my part; I married one of their kids. That should be enough. But no, now I also have to pretend I care about their opinions on local traffic and casserole techniques. Time to retreat into the sweet, muffled world of audiobooks.

Here’s when to plug in those noise-canceling headphones and disappear:

🚙 Airport Pick-Up
They just flew in, full of judgment and old people’s breath. Crank up a thriller and pretend you’re chauffeuring assassins. I can’t sit through another hour of conversation about how Janice forgot to bring her sweater on the plane.

🛏️ Car Ride to the Hotel
They are not staying in your house. They know what they did.

🍽️ Dinner (Home or Restaurant)
Of course, I’m paying. I’m a man. Barely. But still.

🤐 Awkward Silence
Perfect time to get deep into chapter 12 while nodding like you’re listening to their opinions about modern parenting.

🏘️ The Grand Tour
Why do we walk them through the house we’ve lived in for a decade like it’s a real estate listing? You’ve seen the kitchen, Janice.

📺 Terrible Family Movie Night
They want to watch a Hallmark movie about goats who find love. You just want to survive.

💤 Couch Snore-a-thon
They pass out on your furniture immediately and start sawing logs like a dying sea lion. Activate noise-canceling. Hide the remote.

🛍️ Mall Shopping with the Kids
Why do in-laws insist on dragging your children to buy pants they’ll never wear? Your wife says, Go! You comply, you know, like a man.

💻 Family Zoom Calls
Who has 12 kids? Why does one of them always “forget how to unmute”? No one needs to talk to their family to be happy.

📸 Obligatory Family Photo
You may remove one earbud for this. Smile like a hostage.

💼 Bonus Tip: Work Overtime
Suddenly, working late sounds like a gift from above. “Sorry, I’ve got a tight deadline.” 

Final Thought:
Audiobooks are the emotional support raccoon I keep in my pocket when my in-laws descend like a swarm of passive-aggressive locusts. Do I love them? If I have to, in theory. But I love escaping into a story way, way more.

Things That Make Me Want to Punch Book in the Face 

Things That Make Me Want to Punch Book in the Face 

by | Aug 6, 2025 | 🎧 Audiobook Life, 🛠️ Dad-vice & Gear

Okay.

There are a few things that drive me absolutely nuts when I’m listening to audiobooks—or reading.

Let’s break it down.

📅 Chapter Titles with Dates

Why? Why does every chapter need a timestamp like it’s a government document?
“April 5th, 9:47 a.m.”
Dude, I’m not tracking a murder investigation—I’m folding laundry. Just say “three years earlier” or “two days before,” and let my tired dad brain do the rest.

🧠 Nod vs. Shake Confusion

You’d think this one would be basic.

  • Nod = yes.
  • Shake = no.
    But noooo. Some authors write, “Tom shook his head yes,” like we’ve just entered a parallel universe where body language is optional. Don’t make me pause the book to diagram gestures like a middle school substitute teacher. I will. I have whiteboards.

❄️ “Through the Frosted Glass…”

If I hear this phrase all the time, and I just crack up every time. We get it. The glass is mysterious. The view is obscured. So is my patience.

🌀 Extending Senses

“She reached out with her senses.”
What does that mean? Are we talking about actual eyes and ears here, or is this some kind of soul-wifi?
I don’t want to hear about characters “extending their awareness” unless they’re applying for a Marvel contract.

🔈 Quiet Narrators

Narrators: I love you. I really do. But if I have to turn the volume up to 12 just to hear you whisper “he said,” and then get jump-scared by a door slamming in chapter two, we have a problem.
I look like a maniac constantly tapping my AirPods and muttering “What did she say?” in the grocery store. Please, for the love of earbuds—level your audio.

Honorable Mentions (a.k.a. Please Make It Stop):

  • Overuse of the phrase “he let out a breath he didn’t know he was holding.” The collective sigh of exhausted readers should count as storm damage.
  • “She tasted the tension in the air.” Stop licking the atmosphere. Go eat a snack.

Characters biting their lips. Who does this?! Outside of teen vampire romance or dental anxiety commercials, when has anyone in real life bite their lip to express emotion? I’m a grown man with two kids and a mortgage. If I’m biting my lip, it’s because I’m trying not to swear in front of my in-laws. And guess what? I still fail. Every. Time.

📚 You Have to Read a Self-Improvement Book?

📚 You Have to Read a Self-Improvement Book?

by | Jul 23, 2025 | 🎧 Audiobook Life, 🛠️ Dad-vice & Gear, 🥩 Dave Logs

Sometimes life hands you a book you didn’t ask for—and it’s usually wearing khakis and quoting productivity stats at brunch.

Let’s talk about the three ways I’ve been ambushed by “required reading”:

1. Dave Wrote a Book

That’s right.
Your client. Your coworker. Your personal Dave.
And he wrote a book.

Of course it’s about mindset. Of course it has a lion on the cover.
And of course… you’re expected to read it.

Did I listen to it?
Yes.
Did a piece of my soul give up and walk away halfway through chapter 3?
Also yes.

And now Dave’s book is inspiring other Daves.
We are caught in a horrifying Dave-loop. Audiobook Gods help us all.

2. Your Significant Other Thinks It’ll Improve Your Relationship

Ah yes, nothing says love and connection like a relationship book that isn’t on Audible and costs $17.99 in PDF format.

You know what improves relationships?
Doing the dishes and letting your partner watch their shows in peace.
But sure, let’s pretend quoting a chapter about emotional check-ins is gonna fix your inability to load the dishwasher the “right way.”

If reading a book becomes a test of your marriage, maybe the real test is… who gets the Audible credits in the divorce.

3. Book Club Bribery (a.k.a. Free Lunch Thursdays)

The BBQ was free. The price was my pride.

I thought I could power through. One little self-help book for one delicious lunch.

But halfway through a chapter on “visualizing abundance,” I realized something important:

I already own a grill.
And I don’t need a metaphor about marinating success—I need ribs.

Parting Thoughts

Look, we all get roped into reading something we didn’t pick. It happens.
But if you’re gonna force-feed me a book, at least throw in a narrator with a decent mic and some dramatic tension.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I’m going to go listen to something with swords, explosions, or emotionally broken space pirates. For balance.

🧘‍♂️ Yoga Time Is Audiobook Time

🧘‍♂️ Yoga Time Is Audiobook Time

by | Jul 16, 2025 | 🎧 Audiobook Life, 🛠️ Dad-vice & Gear

So I don’t know if you’ve ever had the pleasure of being dragged into a yoga class, but let me tell you—it’s… an experience.

A humbling, soul-wrenching, prime audiobook listening experience.

Because while you’re in a room of hyper-flexible soccer moms pretending to be trees, you can also be solving murders, escaping aliens, or helping a vengeful warrior burn an empire to the ground.

Multitasking at its finest.

🔥 Warning: Don’t Get Talked Into Vinyasa Yoga

Vinyasa is not relaxing.
It’s P90X in a sauna, led by someone named Vanessa who just got back from a yoga retreat in San Francisco with her boyfriend and did you know there are Buddhist monks in San Francisco? Because she does. And she will tell you. For the entire class.

Meanwhile, you’re trying to hold a pose that feels like your limbs are being individually uninstalled, and she’s gently reminding you to “breathe through the discomfort.”

I am breathing, Vanessa. I am breathing out 20 years of regret and Taco Bell.

🎧 Yoga Audiobook Setup: Strategy Is Key

You’ll want:

  • In-ear headphones – Low profile, easy to hide, and you can tell your spouse you’re “listening to calming music” (bonus points for pretending it’s meditation and not murder-for-hire fantasy).
  • Over-ear headphones (in emergencies) – Not as sneaky, but if you tell the instructor, “I get anxious in groups,”they usually give you a pass. That, or they just stop making eye contact with you—which works just as well.

You still need to hear the instructor mumble something about “alignment” while quietly raging inside, but you don’t want them interrupting a perfectly good narration about a rogue assassin rebuilding his life in a dystopian wasteland.

📚 What to Listen To

This is not the time to try something new or slow.

You need:

  • Action
  • Momentum
  • A narrator whose been through some things

If you don’t bring the heat, you will fall asleep during breathing exercises. And honestly, yoga naps on hardwood floors are a rough way to find enlightenment.

Stick with a reliable favorite—something you know will keep your brain busy while your body questions its life choices.

🧘 Pro Tips from a Surviving Dad:

  • Bring two mats. Not for stretching—just to cushion your back from the crushing weight of your own existence pressing into the floor.
  • Don’t do the splits while queuing up a new book. Ask your hip flexors how I know.

Stretch your expectations. You’re not going to get inner peace. But you might get one uninterrupted chapter.