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🎣 Quick Hook or Slow Burn? The Eternal Audiobook Struggle

🎣 Quick Hook or Slow Burn? The Eternal Audiobook Struggle

When it comes to audiobooks, you’ve basically got two types of openings:

  • The Quick Hook: Boom, chaos immediately.
  • The Slow Burn: Let’s describe the baseboards in the protagonist’s apartment for three chapters.

Both have their place. But let me be clear:
I’m a 90% quick hook kind of guy.


🧨 The Quick Hook

You know the one. It starts with a charming old man cleaning his house—he’s got a billion-dollar relic tucked in his sock drawer—and just as you’re getting emotionally attached… his face is blown off by a mystical entity.

Instantly, you’re muttering, “What the hell was that?” and smashing the next chapter button. That’s a hook. That’s why I listen.


🐢 The Slow Burn

Now, let’s talk about its passive-aggressive cousin.

The slow build usually opens with a character describing their sad little apartment in excruciating detail. Like, “Through the frosted glass, I saw my own regrets reflecting back at me…”

Side rant: Why is “through the frosted glass” in every book? Was there an author Zoom call where they decided this was required?

Anyway, four hours later, we finally learn the hero has a dark past involving a dead girlfriend who’s actually his mom and sister, thanks to a twisty multiple personality arc. Riveting.


My Rule: One Hour or I’m Out

I’ve said it before:
If the story doesn’t hook me within one hour, I move on.

Sure, I’ve listened to books where nothing happened until the last twenty minutes—and it was weak sauce at best. Are there probably some amazing slow burns I’ll miss out on because of this rule? Definitely. But with over 74,000 audiobooks published in 2023 alone, I’m not crying over missing a few.


When the Slow Burn Does Work

Look, I get the appeal of the slow burn.

  • You like the build-up.
  • You enjoy the anticipation.
  • Your wife probably appreciates that energy too.

Some authors are incredible world builders who can take their time and still keep you engaged. And yeah, sometimes I need a palate cleanser after a post-apocalyptic series that had me Googling bunker prices.

True story: I recommended one of those “end of the world” audiobooks to a buddy. When I asked what he thought afterward, he just said, “I bought a shotgun.” So yeah. Sometimes you gotta cool off with a slow burn.


Final Thought from the Guy Who Judges You (Silently)

At the end of the day, listen to what you like.
Quick hook, slow burn, dragon court intrigue, or intergalactic beer-can sidekicks—it’s all fair game.

I’m not gonna judge you to your face.
Behind your back? Absolutely.
But to your face? You’re good.This is your audiobook time. Own it.

Why Audiobooks Are Awesome (Even If You Haven’t Touched a Book Since High School)

Why Audiobooks Are Awesome (Even If You Haven’t Touched a Book Since High School)

Let’s cut to the chase: reading is hard. Not like hard hard, but “I-have-kids-and-a-job-and-no-time-to-sit-in-silence-for-300-pages” hard. Enter audiobooks: the glorious loophole that lets you “read” while mowing the lawn, folding laundry, or pretending to care during school pickup.

This isn’t a guilt trip about not reading more. It’s a survival guide for squeezing stories into a dad’s life that’s already stacked higher than a Costco cart before a three-day weekend.

Why Audiobooks Rule (And Paper Books Drool)

I became hooked when I realized I could deep-dive into a spy thriller while scrubbing a toilet. Instant addiction. Why? Because I’m finally getting stories into my life again—and doing it without sacrificing time, sanity, or muscle cramps from holding a book at eye level.

Multitasking Magic: Stories for the Overbooked

Let’s face it: our lives are a three-ring circus of chores, work, and “Dad, can I have a snack?” moments. Audiobooks let you:

  • Listen while driving, walking, gym-ing, pretending to work…
  • Feel productive while folding socks (yes, that counts).
  • Escape, even if your escape route is the garage with headphones in.

The Narrator is Everything (Seriously)

A good narrator can turn a decent book into an all-out binge-worthy event. A bad one sounds like your high school math teacher reading The Iliad. No thanks.

Look out for:

  • Narrators who act, not read. Voices, accents, emotion—the whole nine yards.
  • Bonus: you’ll find yourself stalking favorite narrators like they’re celebrities. Totally normal.

Try New Stuff (Without Regret)

Audiobooks are low-pressure ways to try:

  • Genres you’ve never touched before (sci-fi? noir? cozy mysteries with talking cats?)
  • Authors you’ve heard of but never had the time for
  • Books in other languages (for the overachieving dads out there)

Worst case? It sucks. You move on. No bookshelf shame. No sunk cost panic.

End the Day with a Story, Not a Doom Scroll

Picture this: you’re lying in bed, your kids finally asleep, and instead of doomscrolling TikTok until your brain turns into applesauce, you hit play on a killer audiobook.

Boom. Instant decompression:

  • It’s like watching a movie, but you can close your eyes.
  • Bonus: it won’t recommend 47 more shows you’ll never finish.

How to Get Started Without Losing Your Mind (or Wallet)

Look, don’t overthink it. Pick an app, hit play.

Dad-tested favorites:

  • Libby – Free with a library card. Good for trying stuff without commitment. Like dating, but for books.
  • Audible – Monthly credits, big library, shiny exclusives.
  • Audiobooks.com – Same vibe, different flavor.

Pro tip: Start with Libby. Zero risk. Zero regret.

Final Word from the Garage

If you’ve ever said, “I’d read more if I had time,” congratulations—your loophole is here.

  • Start with something fun.
  • Don’t read what you should—read what keeps you hitting “next chapter.”
  • And if someone recommends a book that “changed their life”? Cool. You’re just trying to survive Monday, not achieve enlightenment.

So go on—hit play, and welcome to your new favorite way to “read.”

So You Wanna Try Audiobooks? Read This Before You Waste a Credit

So You Wanna Try Audiobooks? Read This Before You Waste a Credit

Let me guess—you’ve finally decided to dip your toe into the audiobook pool, but the moment you open an app, it’s like staring into the abyss. Thousands of choices, and you only get one credit a month. One precious credit. Blow it on a snoozefest, and you’ll be salty until the next billing cycle. I’ve been there. Let’s make sure you don’t end up there too.

Step 1: Pick the Right Genre (AKA: What Movie Would You Watch?)

Don’t overthink it. Don’t pick books you should be reading. You’re not in high school English anymore. Go for what actually excites you.

  • Love action flicks? Spy thrillers? Apocalypse survivors punching their way to justice?
  • Rom-coms with sarcastic inner monologues?
  • Murder mysteries with weird detectives and too many plot twists?

Start with what you already know you like and branch out from there. This isn’t a “grow your mind” journey. This is a “stay sane while folding laundry” situation.

Step 2: Choose Your Weapon (App)

Here’s the dad-approved breakdown of audiobook apps:

  • Audible – Paid subscription, new releases, big-name narrators, exclusive stuff. Great if you’re serious.
  • Libby – Free with a library card. Yes, libraries still exist. Great for older titles, random finds, and testing stuff before you commit.
  • Barnes & Noble Audio, Audiobooks.com, etc. – Same deal as Audible. All around $14.95 a month for a credit.

Pick whatever works. If they’ve got the book you want, it really doesn’t matter. Just… if you’re still playing CDs in your truck, this post may not help you. Bless your heart.

Step 3: Series or One-and-Done?

If you’re just getting started, I recommend standalone books. No commitment, no cliffhangers. You want a story that wraps up before you forget what the main character’s name was.

That said, some series—like the Jack Reacher books—let you jump in anywhere. No need to start at book one. Perfect for commitment-phobes.

Step 4: Go for the Hook (Or Regret Everything)

Some books start slow and “build tension.” Cool. Problem is, I’m usually building IKEA furniture while listening, and I need something to happen—preferably with explosions or betrayal—within the first 30 minutes.

Here’s the rule:
If I’m not hooked in one hour, I bail.
Life’s too short for a boring narrator whispering about someone’s tragic childhood for five chapters.

Step 5: Author Schmauthor (At First)

When you’re new to this, don’t stress about authors. That’ll come later. But if someone you actually trust recommends a book, go for it.

And if Dave from accounting tells you to listen to the latest “life-changing” productivity book—run. Dave’s on his fifth try at keto and hasn’t read a real book since college. 

Step 6: If the Book Sucks, Quit

I used to force myself to finish bad books because I paid for it. Big mistake. Now, if it sucks after an hour, I’m out. Libby is perfect for this because it’s free. No guilt. Just move on.

You can always come back later once you’ve built up some audiobook tolerance.

Why Audiobooks Are Awesome: The Perfect Start to Your Listening Journey

Why Audiobooks Are Awesome: The Perfect Start to Your Listening Journey


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